What Do Men Find Attractive I a Woman
I have always enjoyed engaging in flirting. It is a challenge for me keep the flirting in the relationship going, for I am married now. Honestly without flirting where would we be? When I first met my now husband, I was a master when it came to flirting. To flirt with a guy you have to be confident, easy going, and witty. Now I am not talking about the one liners guys like to drop. You must be feeling tired, since you have been running in my mind the whole day. Seriously? Talk about feeling great, when that man flirts back with you it makes your effort all the worthwhile.
Being that some men are clueless to all you have to say, sometimes its a blessing. You could probably flash the guy for all they know before they get that you are trying to flirt with them. The best advice I have been given when speaking to an individual or group of individuals has been to speak carefully my words and never lose eye contact. When men woo women, they sweep them off their feet with innumerable romantic whispers, promises and some times a lot of sweet nothings. Women are carried away and start fantasizing that they have got their man of their dreams being incorrigible romantics.
Eventually, the man asks her to become his wife, she accepts, and they are officially engaged. Wedding takes place, followed by a dream honeymoon and then the couple returns to their daily rigor. All is hunky dory for some days and then gradually, the euphoria lessens and the man slowly unveils his real self. He throws his things around expecting his wife to restore them to their places, expects laundered clothes all the time, wants breakfast to be ready by the time he leaves, expects wife to greet him when he returns, watches TV while sipping coffee, while the wifey dear is preparing dinner.
He has his dinner and goes to sleep blissfully unaware of what his wife wants. Do you want to know what men really want? All roles lover, friend, mother, sister, nurse, house keeper, adviser are wanted as a single form – ‘wife’ which makes them more lovable according to me. To my mind, what attracts a man, more than anything else, is a sense of fun. You want a woman (or another man, if that’s your preference) who enjoys life and doesn’t get hung up on anxieties or gloomy scenarios. Uncertainty and misery are there in the world and buoyant and easygoing person is needed to correct all this.
Someone who will try new things for the sake of trying them; someone who cares more about pleasure than guilt. If you want to attract a man, show him that you’re not afraid to embrace the things you enjoy. You do not want to spend your time with someone who will not allow themselves to partake in all the greatness that is offered in their lives. This would make for a very poor life partner. The best relationships I have ever had as a man were with women that could just be themselves and share my sense of humor, silliness, and sometimes to just simply waste time being together.
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